I’m sure I’m among thousands of women who woke up one day and realized they needed more than what they were getting. For me, the first step to fixing this problem was having the courage to vocalize to people—You’re not doing enough for me, and I need more that what you’re willing or capable of giving—and this goes for friends, family, lovers, or business partners. There’s nothing new under the sun, so what one person experiences , usually many others are going through or have went through the exact same thing or something similar. It’s appears to be a common thing these days, where people enter our lives, take all they can, leave with more than they came with, and now you’re somewhere sitting in the dark, feeling lost, depleted, and broken, after ending things with that person—who was likely an energy vampire…but you just figured things out too late.